Cristina Munoz back again and I think it’s interesting how some of the most powerful emotions we can feel, literally forces on the planet at least in English consist of only 4 little letters like…
When it comes to love when you feel that gorgeous emotion delight in it, and feel it as much as you can as it is all good and helps counter balance hate.
We ALL don’t mind feeling love as it’s pleasurable unlike for example Fear.
I wonder sometimes how many great books have not been written, albums left incomplete, poetry never begun, relationships never started, children not been born, words left unsaid, life changing surgeries avoided, useful products left uncreated and visionary companies never launched or closed down before ever really getting started…
…ALL due to Fear.
It sucks doesn’t it?
It’s sad isn’t it?
Being in the home based industry myself I can’t help thinking of ALL those people who get started yet never, ever do really what it takes for as long as it takes all due to fear too.
I remember David Wood saying on an inner circle audio how who succeeds in your team and who doesn’t is totally outside of your control.
This is so true, and as a leader whose been building teams for over 14 years online one of the most difficult truths to emotionally come to terms with and accept.
That’s because every leader wants everyone in their team to succeed.
We would love to magically snap our fingers and have boom everyone in our teams making over $100K a year however that’s not how it works.
It’s up to the individual.
I can’t help but wonder if those that do succeed do so because they have had more practice identifying fear when the feel it, and possess the courage to then take the step required to overcome that fear or self doubt over and over again?
It doesn’t matter what decent company you are with, if you want to get more than average results, then you need to be willing to do, and become what the 3% top income earners in our industry like myself have been willing to do and become.
Here’s social proof:-
If you want to earn a check like mine above then like me you need to be willing to be dedicated, to work hard, develop the communication skills, leadership skills, accept personal responsibility, and pretty much everything stated in any decent company disclaimer like mine here with the Empower Network.
That means getting comfortable with being uncomfortable…
…and having the courage to face and overcome your fears as they pop up too.
Any decent company will tell you clearly what you need to do to be successful.
It saddens me that so many beginning their journeys who say they want to earn the big money…
…then choose to ignore the training and advice of those achieving the top 3% results!
Those that have failed in the past often want a ‘guarantee’ even though there are no guarantees and others choose instead ‘to first see how it goes’ as if it’s the company that has to prove itself to them and not the other way around.
That sort of thinking is fear based thinking and that sort of thinking ends badly.
If you’ve started a home based business or thinking of doing so if you want results then you need to be willing to take your business seriously and treat it like a business from day one.
Dipping your toes in the water is for someone about to jump into a pool not for some one wanting to build a successful online business.
You’ve got to be willing to have an ALL IN mentally…
…and that of course is scary, as it will mean doing things again that make you feel uncomfortable.
When they say you fail your way to success it’s true, so you do need to get very comfortable with making mistakes, and failing all the time and the key there is to learn from your mistakes, pick yourself up, dust yourself off and do it again the next day a little wiser.
Now let me just say the truth which is not everyone is suited to our Industry.
Not everyone is cut out to be an entrepreneur.
And that’s okay in that situation better you figure it out fast and instead do something else to make a living that does suit you…
…however if you got started in our industry because you have always wanted to run your own business…
…because you’ve never liked having a Boss and you would rather work hard for yourself than for someone else, and you have a genuine desire to inspire others to live and share their own personal truths and beliefs and have the money to do so…
…then there is no reason why you can’t be as successful as you can imagine you can be!
The great thing is learning how to overcome fear helps you in every part of your life.
For example tomorrow I will be going into hospital to have a L4/5 fusion surgery as I prolapsed my L4/5 discs for the third time on March 18th.
Since that day the protrusion on my nerve has left me bedridden, living with acute pain and I could have chosen the fair easier option of having a Discectomy instead, however that would only be a band aid approach as those discs would prolapse again.
Of course I’m scared of having a 5 hour surgery tomorrow where bolts and rods and cages like scaffolding is going to be put into my back and there is no gaurantee it will definitely work however no risk, no reward.
At least with a home business YOU are in control, your fate does not lie on the skills of a surgeon, your fate lies in your hands so it’s you who can decide or not whether you want to be one of the 3% or not.
So to help you conquer fear when it shows itself time and time again…
…whether you have just begun your journey or not here’s are 10 Tips To Overcoming Fear…
…as yes Fear will be your only competitor.
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